I can’t remember the last time I actually rolled on the floor, laughing my ass off. Maybe that would explain the slight but ever so definite widening of this writer’s derriere?
This week’s DP Challenge from WordPress prompts us to remember and share the last time we had a “real, authentic, tearful, hearty belly laugh.” Perhaps the editor is in need of a good laugh. Apparently, so am I!
It’s funny you should ask, WordPress. Just yesterday, I wondered aloud (to a confidant) if I may be getting depressed, maybe need a little medication. I’ve been pushing my mind toward gratitude, happiness, enjoyment, and it keeps sliding back into the gutter where sludge hangs out. Sludge like the PLOM’s (poor little ol’ me’s), BLAHS’s (Boy Look at Her Stuff’s) and the POINTY FINGER’s (Projecting Out In Negative Thinking: Your Fault I’m Not Getting Everything Right!). There’s been a lot of stress in life in the last year, oh, actually make that in the last fifty-six years (yes, I’ll be fifty-seven soon! Maybe that’s reason enough!). Stress, they say, can lead to depression by depleting the serotonin levels over time.
The prescription, so kindly returned, included practical things to improve my mindset, such as mentally rehearsing all I’m grateful for (check), getting enough sleep (un-check), exercising regularly (getting better, check), making time for friends (yeah, right), and, last but not least, laughing.
“Rent a comedy you’re sure will really make you laugh: belly laugh, can’t stop laughing, rolling on the floor laughter. It’s really good medicine!”
I slumped on through the day, the next morning, and then saw the WordPress challenge for the week. Maybe there’s something to this idea, twice in two days coming at me.
So, dutifully, I Googled movies that are sure to make me roll on the floor laughing.
Reading their reviews, I noticed something odd. All, without exception, had a dark side, a tragedy or relationship struggle, a cancer to battle, you know, really un-funny stuff, blended with “hilarious” antics. It made me wonder, Is it funny because we need something to be funny at that moment? Would it still be funny if you take it out of the context of contrasting misery? They say most comedians come from grossly abusive and dysfunctional families, you know. Anyway, I’m not sure that’s the sort of comedy I need right now. None the less, I selected a few that seemed lighter than most. Here’s my list:
Midnight in Paris
Greenberg
Kick-Ass
MacGruber
Seven Psychopaths
Sleepwalk with Me
This is 40
What do you think? Will any of these actually take me there? What funny movie or show do you recommend?
Hopefully at least one of these movies will get me ROFLMAO. Real. Authentic. Tearful. Hearty. Belly Laughs. Then I can tell you why it’s funny.
In the mean time, something happened to remind me that someone around me may need encouragement more than I. It only took a minute to give that person some positive feedback. Guess what? I feel better, for two days now. I think she does too.
So for now, I’ll be happy with feeling better, but I won’t turn down a hearty laugh as soon as it finds me.
Thanks, WordPress!
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©Joan T. Warren
Great post. Good on you for helping someone else feel better and yay that it had a positive effect on you too.
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I loved the Pepsi puppy video you linked this article to! It looks like a slightly older video though?
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Yes, one from my youth that became embedded in one of the happy places in my grey matter!
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Books to make you laugh: by Patrick McManus such as, but not limited to, How I Got This Way. Any of the All Creatures Great and Small books, I think the author is Herriott? I’ve got them somewhere here at the house and will look if Google doesn’t help you.
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Oh, wonderful idea! I am hunting for my summer beach read now!
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The Gods Must Be Crazy and The Gods Must Be Crazy II. Both made me belly laugh!
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Thanks! I vaguely recall the first, wasn’t it a Coke bottle in African jungle?
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I don’t know any of these movies so I couldn’t say whether they’d have the desired effect. I have a couple of favourite stand-up comedians I turn to on DVD when I need a right good bellyaching laugh. Even although I’ve heard the material before, the way they deliver it still has me laughing – especially if I watch with others. It’s usually their observations on life that do the trick.
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Who? Who? Please do tell!
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Kevin Bridges or Eddie Izzard both do it for me. 🙂 Oh, and my sister has just recommended The Babysitters as a funny movie. I’ve never seen that either so I don’t know – we don’t always laugh at the same things. 😉
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Awesome; I haven’t heard of any of these, will add to my list! I think one a week may be in order!
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